By Peggy Lindsey
We all experience moments of overwhelm: whether from tasks to be done, directions to understand, or emotional upheaval, the need for assistance arises. The rub is that one must be willing to ask for help!
Asking for help can be a vulnerable act, and thus, too many people refuse to do so, even in critical circumstances. One may feel shame or embarrassment, fearing judgment that somebody may think less of him/her. Yet, refusal to ask for help is a kind of arrogance, insisting on doing it all by yourself no matter what. Such actions reflect a tremendous lack of faith in others. Those that realize family, friends, and associates have the love, care, and resources to step in and ease the pain and struggle, can feel safe in being open and joining forces to find the right solutions.
As geese fly in V-formation, each bird flapping its wings creates an uplift for the bird behind it resulting in the whole flock getting over 70% better mileage than if each were flying solo. And when the lead bird gets tired, it rotates to the back and another takes over. They know the importance of receiving a little help from friends.
Brene Brown quotes, “We don’t have to do it all alone. We were never meant to.” When we come to know the power of asking for the help we need, we also discover the joys of giving and receiving shared with those we love and trust. So hesitate no more . . . it’s time to ask!
Peggy Lindsey is a Professional Life Coach, Master Teacher of Arcing Light Energy Healing, and a Spiritual Mentor. Her passion is assisting women on their journey toward happy, healthy lives by empowering them to live more joyfully and consciously. She created her business, On Angels’ Wings Healing and Coaching, in 2012 and currently practices in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She can be reached at 928-273-8447. For more info, visit https://onangelswingshealing.abmp.com/.
