Happy Productive Life: Getting Even

Christi Nation, writing to us from her hospital bed this month!

By Christi Nation

I am writing this column from my hospital bed after my mastectomy surgery with an IV in my hand. 

I got mad and I got even! Cancer has taken too many lives prematurely. I was scared to death to learn about the breast cancer, but I researched and got a superb surgical team. Not a lot of people ask questions when being referred to a doctor or service. 

Initially, I was going to a general surgeon and getting a lumpectomy without radiation. I almost took that route but decided to put out a request for referrals from my Facebook friends. The recommendations and support flooded in.

The thought of consulting with a surgical oncologist never occurred to me until my friends told me. It’s a good thing I did! The specialist told me with the type of cancer and it having necrosis I would either have to have a lumpectomy that would take a lot of tissue and HAVE to have radiation or do a mastectomy with no radiation. That was a shock!

I got a second opinion from another surgical oncologist and she concurred. I made the tough choice of mastectomy. I had so much fear about the new normal. Then something really made me MAD – I found out Norm McDonald died of cancer at 61. I became mad at the cancer and wanted to get even by getting it out of my body – and today I did! 

Until next time, here are your Happiness Actions:

  1. Don’t go with the first suggestion. Always ask questions and research. 
  2. Always get a second opinion.
  3. Get mad at your fear and get even with ACTION!

Christi Nation is the President of Nation Training & Development. She will be launching the Happy Productive Life podcast this fall during her cancer recovery. For more of the story, email Christi at Christi.Nation@HappyProductiveLife.com.

Share:

Most Popular

Get The Latest Updates

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

No spam, notifications only about Arts, Entertainment & Wellness In Hot Springs, AR.

Categories

On Key

Related Posts

About the Cover . . .  

“Brady Roseberry”  Featured at the Big Steam & Roots Music Festival Photography by Jay Hiatt  FIRST – Check out the Gallery Walk $250 Gift Card Giveaway on Pg. 4!  Hello, Hot Springs! As we lean into the autumn equinox, we’re celebrating with a burst of blues, hometown pride, and one seriously striking cover.  This month features

The Carework Project: Reckoning with Love, Labor, and the Living World  

By Jennifer Case  By Erin Wood  The Carework Project: Reckoning with Love, Labor, and the Living World is the third book by Conway resident and University of Central Arkansas creative writing professor Jennifer Case, released last month from Trinity University Press.   Combining elements of memoir, collage, interview, research, and cultural reflection, The Carework Project probes what care

Yoga: Benefits of Tree Pose 

Can you find this mural in downtown Hot Springs? Text a selfie in front of it to receive a free drop-in at The Yoga Place for any class in September. 501-651-0545. Photo by Missy Conry.  By Missy Conry & Melissa Stevens In yoga, balance is about more than simply standing on one

Fall Fashions Include Back-To-School Choices

The transition into autumn signals the busy back-to-school shopping season. As autumn approaches, style is taking a richer turn, and The Velvet Attic Boutique is bringing the season’s changing look to downtown Hot Springs. Their curated autumn lineup mixes seasonal colors, balances rich textures and versatile layers, and features transition-ready